Dept. of Sunshine

Sep. 21st, 2025 07:40 pm
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Despair Sucks. Perhaps a Palate Cleanser's in Order

Even though the world is on fire and every morning brings pit-of-the-stomach dread about what the morning headlines will tell, it isn't giving up the fight to say "today I'm going to tell despair to suck it."

I realized this morning that my last couple of posts have been full of rage and frustration. Those are true emotions, but they're also corrosive in the long run - and who the hell knows how much time "the long run" comprises. So here are a couple of things I can honestly say made me smile, or things that I did that I think were fun, or good for someone. 

I can't recall if I've mentioned my friend Sandy's efforts to get her and her husband, Dr. Bob, back into the house they had to leave last December because of fire. Their situation has been fraught on so many levels, and Bob and I haven't been able to help much, other than to have them over for supper and an evening away from their long-term BnB just to have time away from the whole thing. But now that they're starting the process of getting back home, we've been able to help. 

They have had 1100 badly packed and mislabeled boxes of goods delivered back to their house (that's part of why their situation has been so fraught, even now) and they were overwhelmed with the prospect of unboxing everything and putting things back to rights. Bob and I have spent a few hours every day or so helping them do that; from helping them sort things into "keep," "give away," and "pitch" bags, to simple things like breaking down boxes. Boxes and boxes and boxes - and breaking down those boxes and packing garbage bag after garbage bag with the paper used to pack the boxes - becomes really important in this situation. Sometimes all Sandy needed was someone to listen as we took a coffee break, so that she wasn't simply screaming into the void. 

As of today, when I walked in to help Dr. Bob and their friend Steve with more unboxing, the place is starting to look a fair bit more than simply piles of boxes. I think even Dr. Bob, who is inclined to be a glass half empty type, was feeling a little bit of hope. 

They have a long way to go before the place is completely back to rights, but at least they know we won't abandon them. Their longtime friend and retired housekeeper is coming up from Birmingham to do some of the heavy emotional and unpacking lifting that's still necessary. I think they'll finally be able to call their home an actual home before the end of the year. 

Earlier this week, we had the unexpected pleasure of a visit from 
[personal profile] ljgeoff , who was on her way from one travel nursing assignment to another. It's been a few years since Lisa last visited us; we shared some pizza, chocolate chip cookies, and conversation, and then she was on her way. She has more energy in her little finger than I have in my entire body. She also is braver than I think I'll ever be. It was a joy to be in the same room with her again. 

And finally, we've decided to give away the Keurig coffee/tea/whatever maker that a friend gave us. We are drinking enough coffee these days that we haven't used the Keurig in months. Mind you, given the increasing price of coffee, perhaps keeping the Keurig and getting rid of the regular coffee maker might be the smarter choice. Sigh. 


Daily Happiness

Sep. 21st, 2025 08:14 pm
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1. For lunch today we walked up to the neighborhood independent market, which does grilling in the parking lot on weekends during the summer. Well, I guess summer is officially over as they were not set up today. :( We'd been hoping to get a tri-tip sandwich, but I guess we'll have to wait for next summer. Instead we went a few doors down to the restaurant I went to yesterday, and got another grilled cheese, this time (since we'd already been in the mood for a hearty beef sandwich) a grilled cheese with short ribs and pickled onions. It was so good! So we're two for two on that place now.

2. I had some nice snuggle time with Ollie this morning. Actually both yesterday morning and this morning. He just hopped up on my lap and napped for a while. *_*

3. This is a new box. Exactly the same shape as two other boxes we already have in the living room, but everyone is super into it, so I guess we can't get rid of this one now lol.

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Posted by Bar Mor Hazut

There is a lot of awkwardness during the period of time when you know  you are about to get fired, but there is still bureaucracy to follow that makes the entire process last several days.

What do you say to your coworkers? How do you act around your boss? When do you gather up your things and clear out your desk?

However, having those few days to adjust to a new normal is a whole lot better than the alternative–getting fired on the spot and without any notice. How awkward is it to go to work one day, thinking everything is great, only to have your entire world flipped upside down as you leave a few hours later, saying a final goodbye to your shocked coworkers while holding a box of your things?

Apparently, if you work with a company like the one below, in order to have the security of the first option, you must not work there as a contractor. If you do, the manager will have no problem firing you without notice. But at least you will also have no problem quitting without notice, just like the contractor in the story below did…

Titansfall D&D: Summary for 9/21 Game

Sep. 21st, 2025 11:02 pm
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In tonight's game, the rest under a cut for those who don't care. )

And that's where we left off.

Yuletide nominations

Sep. 21st, 2025 10:24 pm
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I have made my nominations:
Slow Horses (TV)
The Expanse Series - James S. A. Corey
Galavant (TV)
Doctrine of Labyrinths - Sarah Monette
InCryptid - Seanan McGuire

The nomination coordination spreadsheet is here if you want to see what other people who know the spreadsheet exists have nominated.

They checked it

Sep. 21st, 2025 05:37 pm
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The worst part of colonoscopy prep turned out to be the sheer number of trips to the bathroom, which knotted up my legs something fierce. The second worst part was the taste of the solution, even with added flavorings. It was salty! (I got the huge jug rather than the Miralax version. Miralax at least isn't salty.) Next time, probably either green unsweetened Kool-Aid or lemonade Crystal Lite or whatever.

Off topic for FFA )

I did make the planned gallon of orange jello, but since it was a little late for me to actually eat it, I put mandarin orange slices in it. Since that's often part of Belovedest's lunch. Today I packed it into smaller boxes to help with that effort and to decrease the crowding in the fridge.

I got a slight nap after everything was about finished. The split prep schedule meant that I started the second half around 12:30 am. Appointment check in time 6 am.

The distance in the facility wasn't super bad, although we brought my chair just in case. (Speaking of the chair, I have decked it out with retroreflective tape and electroluminescent wire. It looks much safer. The cup holder went on Friday.)

The procedure wasn't bad. )

I got dressed again. I had picked a cute nightgown for the outing, black with flowers and butterflies. Instead of a coat (it's getting chilly at night) I wore my dramatic black velvet robe, the one with lace trim and bell sleeves. I received a compliment. And as soon as I proved I could stand up without excessive wobbling, we were off.

Belovedest gathered breakfast for me on our way home, and I took a much needed nap (interrupted a few times to confirm that I could be made conscious and accept hydration).

And that was that.

We did our usual Friday shopping on Saturday. I was still sore. Today my legs are thankfully feeling normal.
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I ficced for Ray Vecchio Day today!

Title: Lay Hands
Fandom and Pairing: due South, Benton Fraser/Ray Vecchio
Rating: Teen
Length: 4,316 words
Author’s Notes: Please heed the tags; no beta we die like caribou that 'drank too much'

Lay Hands on AO3
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I ficced for Ray Vecchio Day today!

Title: Lay Hands
Fandom and Pairing: due South, Benton Fraser/Ray Vecchio
Rating: Teen
Length: 4,316 words
Author’s Notes: Please heed the tags; no beta we die like caribou that 'drank too much'

Lay Hands on AO3

The week in review

Sep. 21st, 2025 04:25 pm
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Three things I did last week: (That may or may not have involved clay.)

1. Canned tomato sauce. We hit our favorite local farm stand and came home with apples, sweet corn, apple cider donuts (Denise's requirement) and two lugs of Roma tomatoes. Also mushrooms and green onions, which I sautéed and sweated, respectively, Sunday night. Monday, I washed and stemmed the tomatoes, cut them into wedges, and commenced cooking. Took a break at lunchtime, during which Denise diverted a bunch to be sliced and loaded in the food dryer. Cooked down the tomatoes, two kettles at a time, mixed in the mushrooms and onions, commenced to canning. Came up a little short on the the additives, so I ran some of the cooked tomatoes through the food mill to can as juice. Water bath canner, 35 minutes per batch; by suppertime, we had made and sealed 20 quarts of tomato sauce, 4 quarts of juice.


2. Threw and assembled two dozen animal banks, elephants and tyrannosaurs. Also 21 pie plates (not pictured).

The Rex's are lying on their backs overnight to let the legs stiffen up. Or possibly to encourage you to pet their tummies. (It's a trap!)

3. Tearing off and replacing the east side of my pottery shed.

When we bought this place, one of the attractions was available storage. There were not one, but two storage units adjacent to the car port. Denise took over one for paper; I got the other for pottery. Over the years, the east wall has deteriorated. It was never great--they'd nailed up a couple of sheets of plywood, cross-wise, with two-by-fours supporting them, slapped on some white paint, and called it good. The past two years, the plywood has started to de-laminate, and dry-rot has attacked the two-by-fours. I really wanted to replace things before the rains returned.

So Wednesday, I went out to Jerry's and bought two 4x8-foot, pre-primed siding panels, wrestled them up on the roof rack, and drove them home. My drill driver's battery packs no longer hold a charge, and DeWalt doesn't make replacements anymore so I borrowed one from the Toolbox Project on Thursday. Friday morning was devoted to tearing down the old wall, repositioning a couple of studs, framing in some cross-members. Had to make another trip to Jerry's for a primed 8-foot 1x6 and a couple of 2x2's for the crosspieces, but got the whole project done by suppertime. I still need to pick up a bucket of paint, but Sunday morning's rain did not get inside.

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Posted by Bar Mor Hazut

Getting benefits from your workplace is great. Who doesn't love these little perks that make you feel less of a fool for subjecting yourself to the corporate world? Give us all the coupons and discounts you have, please.

The thing about the perks you get is that there will always be someone else who will try to take advantage of them for you. Usually, these people don't even work with you; they just want to benefit from you, whichever way they can.

Take the family in the story below as an example. They all tried to pressure their relative to agree to countless favors, all because of where they worked. They wanted them to pull data, submit a referral, and even their employee discounts. There was no end to their demands. Since the employee was not willing to risk their job, they refused all these demands and even walked out of the family dinner to make a point.

Would you have helped your family members, or do you think it is valid to set these boundaries? Keep scrolling to read the full story and share your thoughts in the comments below.

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Posted by Lana DeGaetano

Mixing family and money is never a good idea, especially if you're heavily reliant on the money they'll owe you at the end of your tenure as an "employee" with them. The teen in this next story learns this the hard way when her older sister fails to pay her the money she's owed after eight weeks of work. The teen decided to take her sister up on the offer because she needed the money and figured it would be a nice gig while also helping out her sister. What she didn't know, however, was that she would only see $500 of the $2000 she was expected to receive.

Everyone struggles with their finances at some point in their lives… The common man's hardship is something most of us experience, so it's not unusual to read about the older sister's financial situation. If the older sister knew that she wouldn't be able to cough up the cash she promised her teen sister, you'd think she wouldn't have hired her in the first place. Now, the teen's older sister is trying to guilt-trip her into waiting a longer amount of time for the rest of the promised payment, using her daughter's birthday party as a scapegoat. Maybe the older sister should have budgeted for both the party and childcare…

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Sep. 21st, 2025 03:50 pm
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The Discover card bother went as I assumed it would. There were phone callS. It would help if I weren’t pretty much of an idiot. I can’t think on the phone. But they have their nine dollars and all is well.

Happily, Taskmaster is back. I’m not as fond of these players as of the last bunch but I’m warming up to them.

I’ve cut off all my streaming sites; I’ll wait until Acorn or Britbox have something I want to see. It’ll probably be a cozy mystery. Roku has their own channel and Midsomer Murders plays continually. I pop in, watch a scene or two and usually drop out at the commercial. I already know who ALL the murderers are.

I’ve washed and put away the seersucker pedal pushers. From now on it’s black jeans. Summer is over. I may even get out the crocheting project soon.

Fic: verse. chorus. verse

Sep. 21st, 2025 11:48 pm
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verse. chorus. verse. (13374 words) by dotsayers
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Biggles Series - W. E. Johns
Rating: Mature
Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings
Relationships: James "Biggles" Bigglesworth/Erich von Stalhein, James "Biggles" Bigglesworth & Erich Von Stalhein, James Bigglesworth & Ginger Hebblethwaite & Algy Lacey & Bertie Lissie & Erich von Stalhein
Characters: Erich von Stalhein, James "Biggles" Bigglesworth, Algy Lacey, Bertie Lissie, Ginger Hebblethwaite, Lorrington "Gimlet" King
Additional Tags: Time Loop, Temporary Character Death, Suicide, Whump, Angst with a Happy Ending, Unreliable Narrator, Dubious Morality, Not Beta Read, POV Third Person Limited
Summary:

A sharp clatter from the street woke Erich from an uneasy dream.

(Erich von Stalhein is trapped in a snare from which he cannot escape alone.)

a year and a half ago i posted an excerpt of this wip on dreamwidth, then barely touched it until 2pm today. then i wrote nine thousand words of it
 

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Our third check-in point for Small Web September is at hand!

We're now on the home stretch - but there's still lots of time to play around with your small web project(s), so if you're just joining us, welcome! We hope you enjoy taking part and chatting with everyone in the comments.

The theme of this week's check-in is communities! There are lots of cool groups, forums, mailing lists, and social media movements for or adjacent to the small/indie web - I'm posting in one right now! These can be really excellent places to find like-minded hobbyists, share tips and resources, and take part in challenges and events (again, like this one :D).

So, in the comments, share how you're doing with your small web project(s) and also where you like to spend time talking about the small web, if anywhere! I'm not going to too-rigidly define what counts as a "community", so if you think it counts, mention it here.

As a bonus discussion prompt: what is something you would love to see/join a community for (this one doesn't have to be small web-related!) but you haven't yet found one? Have you ever thought of starting it yourself?

As a reminder, this is the third of four ‘check-in’/comment points that will be published during the event – you can check out the schedule and dates of these posts over on the event intro. There’s no cut-off point for commenting on them, so you can add something at any time – you also don’t need to comment on every one or do them in order! The themes are a loose guide and all discussion is welcome. For our previous check-in post, head on over to Small Web September Check-In 2: Halfway House/Troubleshooting!

There'll be a longer gap than usual between this and our next (and final!) check-in, which will be posted on Tuesday 30th September, the last day of the challenge - so look out for it then!
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Posted by Isabella Penn

It's Monday. Again. How is it Monday already? Yesterday was Sunday, a day that started so innocently and ended with the slow creep of existential dread known as the Sunday scaries.

But you still dragged yourself to work, poured the fourth cup of coffee, and finally mustered the energy to open your email. Instantly, you realize that some overachieving coworkers were online all weekend, ticking off tasks and setting expectations you didn't even know existed. And your higher-ups were up at dawn, already piling seven new items onto your to-do list before your brain has had a chance to boot up. 

Monday meetings should be illegal. Seriously, how is anyone supposed to make meaningful decisions before their third cup of coffee? On a Monday morning, nonetheless? 

📝 weeknotes (sept. 14-20, 2025)

Sep. 21st, 2025 02:32 pm
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Life Updates

Well, that was a longer gap than I meant to do! From my last update to now:

  • have left my Ann Arbor catsit
  • flown to California to visit parents and sat in a SoCal heatwave for a week
  • bought new suitcase, repacked items, swapped out clothes, etc.
  • flew to new catsit in undisclosed location (in the Western part of the US, anyway)
  • settled into new catsit for about a week, then
  • became vaguely ill for a week and
  • only now picked up laptop and felt energetic using it

I’ll do a more precise (friends-only) catsit update to introduce y’all to the new kitties, but overall I’m really enjoying this new location– though I miss the garden from Ann Arbor! I do have a balcony with a view of the river with an enormous amount of ducks here, though.

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Crossposted from Pixietails Club Blog.

vital functions

Sep. 21st, 2025 08:22 pm
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[... sorry about the template, I hit return in the title field and IT POSTED. details to appear shortly. :-p]

Reading. Ann Leckie, Monty Lyman, Ronald Melzack & Patrick D. Wall )

Writing. ... I have actually put some more notes into The Document.

So many lost property e-mails. (And at some point I'm going to need to start replying to them, too.)

Watching. On YouTube: True Facts: Bats, The Science Of The Hunt. NSFW. Definitely... An Experience.

Cooking. ... yeah no I managed to make veg spag bol on Friday but otherwise we've mostly just been feeling faintly sorry for ourselves. Okay, no, that's not quite true, I did also achieve baked potato on Wednesday.

Eating. Misc takeaway from The Field (leftover Sunday night curry for dinner on Tuesday; leftover vegetable fried rice + Szechuan tofu for breakfast on same...). I remain mildly resentful that the Wagamama menu still does not contain any of My Favourites.

Growing. The second attempt at pineapple has NEW LEAVES. The second attempt at lemongrass is maybe Going? And other than that I have no idea because I have spectacularly failed to make it to the plot this week.

Observing. BATS. A variety of excellent dahlias and passion flowers on a Trip To Town (post office, pharmacy).

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Quote of the Day:

"Maybe this book will be banned in Florida right out of the gate. But I guess if you’re not banned in Florida, then what are you really doing with your life."

— Sean Sherman, in "Reflections on Creating Turtle Island: A Cookbook Against Erasure," in his newsletter The Sioux Chef (9/7/2025)


Today's Writing:

About 250 words, about something I thought of that I didn't want to forget. 8-)


Tally

Days 1-19 )

Day 20: [personal profile] badly_knitted, [personal profile] brithistorian, [personal profile] callmesandyk, [personal profile] carenejeans, [personal profile] cornerofmadness, [personal profile] luzula, [personal profile] sanguinity, [personal profile] sylvanwitch, [personal profile] trobadora

Let me know if I missed you, or if you wrote but didn't check in yet. And remember, you can join in at any time!
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First of all, relax! I'm far from being picky, and I can pretty much guarantee that I'll love whatever you decide to create for me. These are nothing but guidelines, for you to take to heart or ignore to your heart's content. Also, hey! You're writing me fic or drawing me art! That's automatically a good reason for me to love you, no matter what. So, please, keep that in mind. Trust me, you can pretty much do no wrong. ♥

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